Saturday, September 3, 2016

Organize Your Life with a FREE Planner + GIVEAWAY

When I was at community college, I worked three jobs, competed on the forensics team (speech and debate), and was a full-time student. It was complete chaos- but I managed to maintain my grades at the same time. And now that I'm at UCLA, I have a TON of people constantly asking me how I managed to juggle all those extracurricular activities. The answer? Get a PLANNER. I personally cannot stress how important it is to utilize a planner. And after sorting through dozens of planners, I finally found one that I believe is the best planner on the market. It's called the PASSION PLANNER.  (I literally had a fangirl moment in Barnes & Noble when I found out that my good friend Joshua also loved these planners).

*cue oohs and ahhs*
I'm absolutely in love with this planner. I love how it has a faux-black leather cover and I especially love how it's vegan friendly. I'm also a huge fan of how it comes in a variety of different shapes and colors. AND I LOVE how the CEO of this company came from the same college- UCLA! But the best part about this planner is their Get One, Give One program. Now, for every planner you buy, they give one to non-profit organizations around the country. The Passion Planner organization is all about paying it forward to help others - which makes it a company I love working with. 

Don't pay attention to my terrible artistic skills.
Upon opening the calendar, you are shown a monthly calendar to organize what you want to do. But because I happened to be at Taiwan during this time, my planner just consists of my random doodling. Regardless, this page has boxes for you to organize this month's focus, people to see, places to go, personal projects, and work projects. Mapping out your month in advance helps you focus on what you want to accomplish and what upcoming events there are to prepare for. 

My first week at UCLA
Flip a few pages over, and you are shown a WEEK'S worth of planning. Each day starts at 6:00 am and ends at 10:30 pm (but if you are a night owl, you are able to download more pages online). Every morning, I like to sit and plan out my whole day in advance. By doing so, it prevents me from spending my entire day binge-watching television. And even though this process seems like a hassle- it honestly works wonders in ensuring I no longer procrastinate. Though school planners work well, but I find myself just going back to dated planners. By following my daily schedule, I found myself procrastinating less, getting rid of my social media addiction, and being more productive. I cannot stress how much scheduling and organizing my planner has helped me academically. 

Extra features in the planner also include quotations every week to motivate you, and a "space of infinite possibility box" for you to write or draw whatever you want. But, my favorite feature is the side box that reads, "Good Things that Happened". Research shows that writing down grateful thoughts leads to positive health benefits and an overall HAPPIER life- and I absolutely love reflecting on all the blessings that have happened in my life each day.

After each month, the planner has a page dedicated for monthly reflections. It asks questions such as, "What were the three biggest lessons you learned this month?" "What or who are you especially thankful for this past month?" "Name three things you can improve this upcoming month", etc. Writing and pondering about your past/future is not only relaxing for me, but allows me to focus on my end goal & future career. At first, I found this step to be tedious. But once I started writing, I began to find this process to really be therapeutic in accomplishing what I want to do. By writing out your goals, you're more likely to ACCOMPLISH them! 

This planner has been such a life-changer for me and has really allowed me to not only organize my life, but focus on what I want to do. Thus, I am so EXCITED and grateful to collaborate with Passion Planner to offer this giveaway to my readers! I am giving away the compact academic planner that costs approximately $25. This giveaway ends September 25 - so I have enough time to ship out this planner before the month of October. All you have to do to enter the giveaway is SUBSCRIBE to my blog ( there are pop-up boxes for you to enter your email) and that's it!

Currently, the small planner retails for $25, while the large one costs $30. However, the company truly believes in their Passion Planner & knows that this is a product that could really help a lot of people. After all, the CEO of the company herself used her personal planner to pull herself out of the depressive state she was originally in. Thus, they give free full PDF downloads which you can find here. Simply download & print the pages, and stick them into your binder to go! If you're interested in purchasing these planners, they can be found here

Thanks for reading this lengthy post! Remember to enter the giveaway that ends on September 25.
Best of Luck

Monday, August 15, 2016

UPDATE on One Month of Blogging

When I attended summer school at UCLA, I worked at the calling center where I basically called alumni every single day to ask for donations. One of the alumni happened to be a journalist. And during our phone call, we fortunately got sidetracked and spent a majority of the time talking about the field of journalism. If you read the ABOUT ME tab above, I provided a more detailed reason on why I started this blog. But basically, today marks a month of blogging and I wanted to give you all an update on what has happened in the past month. 

While most people have a niche for their blog, I basically write about everything- from fashion, to college, to life hacks, to important social movements, etc. And one day, I decided to write a post called "Why #blacklivesmatter MATTERS to Asian-Americans". This post received a lot of positive comments from my peers, so I randomly decided to email this to Huffington Post- inquiring if I could contribute my article to their blog. A few days later, Ariana Huffington (OMG!!) replied and set me up with a username/password to become a contributor. They incorporated a few quotations, added it to their “Voices” section, and changed the title to, “What #blacklivesmatter Should Mean to Asian-Americans. (Click here to read the full article)

This was an exciting step for me. It had only been a few weeks of blogging and one of my article was already published! However, what surprised me the most was the love I received from my friends, family, and the forensics community. Professors that inspired me had taken the time to read and repost my article. Friends from high school that I haven’t talked to for years shared the article. And even #blacklivesmatter Facebook Groups had reposted the article for others to read. Within a month, the Huffington Post article garnered over 750 shares- which is truly incredible.

Okay, it’s now time for a disclaimer. So the main reason I decided to write this post today isn’t to brag (okay, maybe a little. Because I’m honestly still overjoyed/ ecstatic), but to share the importance of using your voices. After posting my article on Facebook, one of my high school friends messaged me and told me, “I am so incredibly happy to see someone from Wilson actually take charge of this issue.” But- what’s interesting about this comment was that I had actually contemplated for hours prior to writing this post. I didn’t want to share my opinion because I wasn’t an expert on the movement. In other words, I didn’t think I was smart or well-versed or “qualified” enough to be able to write a solid article. I simply had an opinion, was passionate to be a part of this movement, and wanted to share my thoughts. But, I’m glad I ended up ignoring those negative thoughts on not being “smart enough” because many of my friends who read my article had told me that I persuaded them to finally be a part of this movement. The point of this is that you don’t have to be an expert on something to write about it. If you’re passionate about anything at all, I encourage you to use your voice and share your opinions with others. I personally know how it feels to think that you’re not “smart enough” or “a good enough writer”- but we really can’t enact change if we never use our voices. And I hope that reading my post can help convince some of you to start being more vocal about important social movements.

Being published on the Huffington Post, and changing the perspective of my friends was already an amazing experience. It feels incredible to be able to share your voice with others and for them to understand where you’re coming from. But, surprisingly, the story gets even better. Right before I left to Taiwan, I was contacted by a TV correspondent who asked to feature me for a story they were producing on the BLM movement. And I can honestly tell you, I was shocked. Even till today, I can’t believe that I had the opportunity to share my voice and represent the Asian-American community on national television. For those of you who are interested in learning more, I’ve provided the video below.

 To sum it up, it has only been ONE MONTH of blogging and I can already tell that this will be an incredible journey. I’m so thankful to the alumnus who had inspired me to start this blog and I’m so thankful to you all who take the time to read my blog. (Side Note: If you want to get updates whenever I post, you can subscribe by email). And of course, I’m so thankful for God – as I believe that this was part of his big plan for me. Thanks for reading this lengthy post and I hope you follow along my blogging journey.

She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. Proverbs 31:25 

Saturday, July 16, 2016

Why #blacklivesmatter MATTERS to Asians

The other day, I decided to log onto Facebook to see what my friends and family were updating on social media. This was the day after Alton Sterling was fatally shot by two of the city's policemen. And unfortunately, a majority of my peers were not focused on trying to stop police brutality, nor the injustice that had occurred. Instead, my newsfeed was filled with people arguing whether the phrase should be #blacklivesmatter or #alllivesmatter. 

One of which, was a comment written by an Asian-American woman who stated how she refused to support the #blacklivesmatter movement since it did not include the Asian community. She discussed how Asian lives also mattered, and that the #blacklivesmatter movement needed inclusion. So that, was her reason for not being a part of the #blacklivesmatter movement. Because of the specific phrasing of #blacklivesmatter, the movement therefore did not matter to her. 

I wish I were able to tell you that this reason only applied to this one woman. However, the unfortunate truth, is that many Asian-Americans believe that the #blacklivesmatter movement doesn't matter because it is a movement that does not include them. 

And one of those Asian-Americans, used to be me. 
Now, before you get mad, let me explain. In the same way, the term feminism is often looked down upon by men because they feel that it doesn't apply to them. Even though the entire feminism movement is about equality for everyone, men often feel as if the movement only applied to women. As an Asian-American woman, I had originally believed that the phrasing didn't include me. Even though the #blacklivesmatter concept was to bring about equality for everyone, I felt unsure that its meaning was that the lives of the Asian community also mattered. Through the phrasing alone, I didn't think it was directly fighting for equality for all. And I failed to see how #blacklivesmatter mattered to the Asian-American community.

Here's the thing- Yes, Asian-Americans face discrimination on a regular basis. But Asian-Americans are not the ones being targeted.

The problem with the #alllivesmatter movement, is that we are ignoring the fact that black lives have been the primary victims of police brutality. In the past year alone, the American police have killed more than 500 black lives alone. Black people are five times more likely to be killed than white people. And in most situations, they are unarmed, completely innocent individuals. 

These statistics don't apply to Asian Americans.

The other day, I read a true story about a black man who was afraid that a policeman would flag him down because his car's license plate had expired. He was afraid of the possibility that a simple encounter with a policeman could end his life that day. But, for us, when a policeman flags us down the road, we are so fortunate to be able to think "I am going to get a ticket" rather than "My life is about to end". When we walk down the street, we are lucky to to be able to do so without preconceived stereotypes that we are dangerous criminals. And we are blessed that our first impressions do not include the word "threat" or "armed". However, our situation unfortunately doesn't apply to the lives of many black individuals. And hundreds of lives have been taken by the hands of corrupt policemen who incorrectly discriminate against innocent black lives. 

But now, I understand, that
#blacklivesmatter is to highlight the injustice that black individuals face everyday.
#blacklivesmatter is fighting for equality for everyone.
so #blacklivesmatter does include Asian-Americans

When I see my fellow Asian-Americans explain that they do not have anything to do with the #blacklivesmatter movement, I can understand why they feel that way. But the thing is, the #blacklivesmatter movement also affects Asian-Americans. 

How? Well, the core of the movement is to equalize all races. And the label is "black lives matter" because black people are the most adversely affected. What the movement is trying to do, is to fix the most affected area first- before police brutality expands to other races. It's similar to fire. If a house were to catch on fire, the firefighters would try to put out the fire in the house it started with, than to focus on the neighboring houses. In the same way, the #blacklivesmatter movement is trying to focus the problem on black lives before other minorities are affected by police brutality. If Asian-Americans continue to believe that this movement does not apply to them, they are in for a rude awakening. Because essentially, we could very well also be the target of police brutality if this problem is never fixed.

In addition, another common misconception is that this problem is one that will never be solved. In fact, one of my Asian-American friends expressed his concern that his main issue with the #blacklivesmatter movement is how there is no tangible solution. But, it's important for all of us to understand that awareness is always a good step forward. This is not an entirely blind movement, but it's the aspect of raising awareness before raising an answer. 

Currently, there are more than 18,000,000 Asian-Americans in the United States today. And within the 18 million Asian-American individuals, I hope that they begin to voice their opinions louder than ever for the violence and cruelty within our country. I hope they begin to understand how #Blacklivesmatter allows us to take the first step towards finding the answer to ending this injustice. And how it is a movement that Asian-Americans especially need to be apart of. 

Because #blacklivesmatter does matter to Asians. 

Sunday, July 10, 2016

Azzaam Siddiqi

Azzaam's Style
"Well, my style is nothing out of the ordinary, but I do like to add my own twists to it. Nevertheless, I would say my style is very Yeezy-esque, pulling inspiration from Kanye West. Besides that, my style is very much whatever I think just looks good I would hope that people see just me and nothing else. I can dress comfortably, casually, or formally and still look better than the average person out there, so I would say that's very much my style."

Azzaam's Story

"Being a first generation child to immigrant parents, there were a lot of things that I had to go out and discover on my own, with fashion being one of them. Growing up, I had my awkward phases just like everyone else, yet mine always tended to be a bit more awkward than everyone else, which eventually led to bullying. My mom would always dress me when I was younger, but that was when I could care less about what I looked like. However, reaching 7th or 8th grade was when I started to care more about what I looked like. Even then the problem wasn't solved- the thing with styling yourself is that it doesn't just happen overnight. You experiment with different looks until you find one that you like, and with society and whatever is considered "in" always changing, that can become difficult. I always needed other people's approval to feel better about myself and the way I looked, which didn't help especially with all the bullying going on. Finally, not until junior year of high school, after various awkward phases, I stopped caring so much about what others thought of me and decided to do what made me the happiest. That's also when I embraced one of my many life motto, "look good, feel good" If you think you look good, that's all the validation you need for yourself to just go outside and take on the world. People are always going to judge you no matter what you do, so might as well do what makes you the happiest right?"

Behind the Scenes
While many individuals often ask the photographer to think of ways to position themselves in pictures, Azzaam is the kind of person that definitely knows what his best angles/poses are. (In other words, I was definitely not needed HA HA.) However, watching him jump off ledges or posing in elevators yesterday showed how inspiration can be found anywhere. Literally. Even inside a nearly-broken elevator. Or a broken air conditioner. 
One thing that truly amazed me about his story, was how he always appeared so confident about everything. But reading about his past experiences simply reaffirmed the notion that clothing can help us find our inner confidence so that we can love ourselves more than Kanye loves Kanye. Here are a few more "behind the scenes" pictures of our photoshoot. Thanks for reading & I hope you enjoyed! 

When you match the air-conditioner, you know it's time for a picture.

Risking his life for a picture. I guess you could say he likes LIVING LIFE ON THE (L)EDGE(;
shirt - Forever 21, H&M
sweats - H&M
jeans - cotton on
shoes - Footlocker, ASOS
Outfits by Azzaam Siddiqi

Friday, July 8, 2016

From Potato to Beyontato

"Some days I have my potato days when I just... feel like a potato. But, some days, I look in the mirror and feel like I look like I just came out of Beyonce's vagina."
With such a strange unique introduction, I was immediately curious to know how she described her style, or who inspired her. I'm the type of person that's confident about my style and my personality. But unfortunately, I've never woken up in the morning thinking I looked like I came out of Beyonce's vagina. I know- I still have a lot to learn. Hope you enjoy reading about Monica as much as I loved writing about her!
Monica's Style
"I guess you could describe my style as Street Chic.  By wearing a bomber jacket or a coat on top of jeans and a shirt- I feel more chic. Like I truly came out of Beyonce's vagina. As for inspiration, that would definitely be Kylie Jenner. Despite media criticism, Kylie continues to dress and look the way she wants because she's dressing for none other than herself. Fashion shouldn't be to impress others, but to make yourself feel good."
Monica's Story
"In high school, I would dress up in jeans and a shirt, and had no fashion inspiration. Unlike others, what I wore didn't matter to me. But I began to feel out of place for dressing in this simplistic way.  I began to feel slightly paranoid that others were judging me. So, fashion started to matter more. I put more effort into dressing up my outfits through jackets or shoes"
"My clothes definitely convey maturity. Now, I could care less about how others perceive my fashion style. I still like dressing comfortably, so I guess you could say that I still have that casual look. But I think my clothes also say a lot about how I've changed and matured as a person. In high school, I wasn't me. I was quiet. I was bullied. I let it happen and didn't stand up for myself. But in the past few months in college, I no longer care about what others think of me. I've become more mature. The way I dress now makes me feel confident. And in a way, this newfound confidence through fashion has allowed me to be confident in myself. When I'm excited, I'll literally start doing high kicks out of nowhere. When I feel awkward, I make chicken noises or sing with my "Stitch" voice. I'm embracing my inner potato now. Beyonce would be proud of me."
Jacket: Forever 21
Boots: Macy's
Sunglasses: Windsor
Outfit by Monica Sharma